(But wouldn't notarium fusion by very ontogenetically dependent anyway?)
Only if pterosaurs were archosaurs. [...]
Maisano 2004 reports that you can throw out the old rules if pterosaurs are not archosaurs.
In the case of the notarium, its presence was used to argue for the monophyly of "Metaves" - which, as it seems now, are almost certainly a pseudoclade.
Why do you think so?
For a similar error, consider the fallacy "everything with feathery integument is a member of Aves".
You can usually get around this by de-emphasizing the trait as a whole and concentrating on particular sub-traits - by considering the *structure* of a feature rather than its *existence*.
In determining character choice & scoring, it helps that we have robust grounds to suspect a particular overall polarity: notarium fusion is apomorphic vs vertebral nonfusion, as far as can be told.
This need not yield "better" results (i.e. better-supported and less polytomies). But uncertainty that is correct is preferrable to certainty that is wrong, and in some cases - when the potentially misleading traits carry much weight in the scope of your analysis - this may be the only way to get results that are not outright wrong.