Consider sea-turtles; no parental care, young born very small and having to spring down the beach to the water. Most don't make it, and must then get through many years in the ocean to reach breeding size. Yet, absent humans, turtles do very well.
Perhaps the essential thing was staying alive as an adult long enough to lay enough eggs. That would make predator defence through size a component of the r-strategy.
Because being really big means really strong reproductive constraints if you're a mammal. One offspring every five years is not robust over evolutionary time.
Is there actually a constraint on producing 5 smaller babies?
Sauropod nest defence has to explain how it could happen; 2 kg verses 20 tons is four orders of magnitude size difference.
Not sure what you mean here...
There's _three_ orders of magnitude between the adult and the probable predators; how well would you expect rhinos to do, guarding against foxes?