Modern birds nowhere near that size have a lot of trouble.
-----This is true. It appears to be related to two things., the first being the launch techniques available to birds, and the second being that membrane wings are capable of maximum steady-state lift coefficients about a third greater than the maximum that birds achieve (bat wings do not do quite as well as birds).
I think the mega-volants needed different conditions to find giantism advantageous,
------This may be true.
Here we have in chronological order the flying vertebrates; pteros (biggest)=> birds (smaller)=> and bats (smallest). Bats are the most recent, and (correct me if I am wrong) the largest known bats are extant.
Like I say, this is suggestive, given the consistency of the terrestrial record and the contrast with the aquatic record.
-----Not really. It can be more parsimoniously related to differences in wing mechanics between the three.
Cheers,
--Mike H.